I know I have talked about my submission but I didn’t really dive into my role or the details of it so I will try and give a clearer picture of it all today.
First, I like to journal so I downloaded an online journal app so that I can design and share with My Daddy easily and be artistic with it. My journal contains our family calendar (appointments and Daddy’s work schedule and etc.), personal goals for the month and year, project trackers for the month and year (I’m artistic and ADHD and lose focus so its a HUGE help), Our dynamic outline (Rules, Expectations, Positives for me to focus on, Wants and Needs for both of us, sexual goals for me, dated and completed BDSM checklists for each of us that can be updated and dated to show progress and changes, dynamic goals and etc.), our chore lists, life goals, trackers for Food/Water intake, mood, habits, period, sleep, podcasts, books, websites and articles used for continuing education so that if I find something to share it’s logged and ready to share, there’s also places for quotes that resonate with me, action plans, notes/ideas and actual journal entries.
Combining the journaling with all other items into a digital option has been amazing! Journaling has been a game changer in our dynamic and regular life. I need time to process things and figure out feelings, thoughts and questions I may have. Writing gives me a way to work through things the way my brain does naturally… all over the place but eventually provides the point! Before sharing my journaling with Daddy conversations would get off track or I couldn’t find the write questions or words and arguments would ensue. At the time Daddy hadn’t fully understood my process and felt I was being argumentative or avoiding things but when he started reading my journals and really seeing my process it helped him understand me and all of it better and proven to be a great way to help our genuine communication that we both understand.
Second, In most traditional gender role relationships the Male or Dominant takes care of the finances but Daddy travels for work and I have worked in accounting for many years before I stopped working so numbers make sense to me and I handle all finances.
Third, I take care of all inside chores and household needs and I am the primary parent for our children. I stopped working as Daddy’s travel increased and the needs of the kids increased. Daddy handles all outside chores, fixing things inside when needed and vehicle cares (unless he’s out of town and something needs to be handled urgently… and I have a deep LOVE of cars and I am capable of researching and caring for my vehicle but it’s nice to not HAVE to because Daddy will do it to take care of me and our safety).
Fourth, I am to be available for all sexual needs and/or service oriented help and needs… Everything from holding a screw in place or data entry or taking off his work boots and that varies as needed. Basic service’s I do provide are showers, haircuts, laundry and anything else that takes something off Daddy’ plate.
Fifth, I am to keep learning and expanding myself. I am to ask for things that I want to try or would like more of and work on voicing those when they come up. It is very encouraged for me to speak up in our dynamic.
So here is a more in depth view of my role in our Dynamic. Let me know if you have questions or would like more details on anything.
Until next time,
Pretty in Pink 💕
Pretty in Pink 